If you’re reading this, chances are someone you love is walking through a loss that feels impossible to fix. The loss of a baby can leave loved ones feeling unsure, afraid of saying the wrong thing, or unsure how to show up — especially when the grieving parent isn’t ready to receive help or unsure how they need to be served themselve

Below is a gentle guide for loving someone through this type of loss, especially when they are quiet, withdrawn, or unsure of what they need.